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BEING GHOSTED: WHY IT HAPPENS AND HOW TO COPE

This cowardly act, unfortunately pretty normalized by our culture, can cause immense pain. As you have no clue what may have happened, your mind first jumps to many possibilities. Was this person injured in a car accident? Is their family okay? Maybe they are just busy and will get back to you later?

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WHAT IS ATTACHMENT TRAUMA?

Attachment trauma is a disruption between the bonding process of a baby and it’s primary caregiver. The trauma may be overt abuse or neglect, or it may be less obvious – lack of affection or response from the caregiver.

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COMBATING SHAME

Shame is the intensely painful feeling or experience that results from believing we are bad, wrong, or broken, and therefore unworthy of love and belonging. It is common to be ashamed of who we are and who we are not. We have been receiving messages since childhood that lead to shame.

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WHAT IS A TRAUMA TRIGGER?

We must first dispel the notion that a trigger is inherently negative. It isn’t. A trigger simply refers to something that activates a response within the body. Triggers are typically sensory in nature, meaning they can be compromised of various sights, sensations, textures, and even scents.

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EFFECTS OF CHILDHOOD TRAUMA ON ADULTS

Almost everyone experiences some kind of traumatic event in their lives. If the type of trauma you experienced occurred in childhood, it’s likely you have experienced some amount of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). But what are the long-term effects of childhood trauma? Do these events cause a ripple effect throughout our lives?

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SAFETY IS THE MISSING LOVE LANGAGE THAT TRAUMA SURIVORS NEED MOST

The love languages are a good concept for nurturing healthy relationships, except for one thing. Love languages can only work when assuming both partner’s brains are able to think clearly and calmly. This is not often the case for trauma survivors who frequently exist in a state of alarm. They are living with a traumatized nervous system, and survival impulses have hijacked the brain.

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HOW TRAUMA IMPACTS THE WINDOW OF TOLERANCE

The window of tolerance was described by Dr. Dan Siegel as an optimal zone of arousal in which a person would be able to function with day-to-day stress. While most people can deal with the demands of stress without much difficulty, individuals who have experienced trauma, anxiety or other mental illnesses can struggle to stay in the optimal zone.

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3 WAYS HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS HELP HEAL TRAUMA

Reaching out in time of need or asking for help doesn’t come easily to those who have experienced trauma in their lives. Something as seemingly simple as accepting a compliment may be painfully hard. However, the ability to move past these fears and hesitations is critical on the road to living a full and well-balanced life.

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TRAUMA AND HOW TO CHALLENGE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

Automatic negative thoughts influence emotions and distort our perception of reality in a negative way. These thoughts are difficult to recognize because they are fleeting and habitual. Negative thoughts can make us feel agitated, anxious, be less productive, cause harm to our relationships, or cause psychological damage.

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